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Are You Suffering From Cultural Depression?

I see a lot of depression around me.

Perhaps you do, too.

But it is a strange kind of depression the kind of depression that comes when everything around us seems wrong.

Depression And Culture

What I am seeing is a fairly complex depression that comes from a number of sources – like an octopus messing with our inner well-being. I am calling it cultural depression.

Culture and psychological well being are closely related. If a culture does not support the well-being of its members, then numerous emotional and psychological conditions can be expected. According to Time Magazine, one in five Americans are taking medication for mental health issues. That number does not take into account the numbers of people medicating themselves in other ways.

Depression And How We Value Ourselves

We humans have an important need: the need to like and be happy with ourselves.

Our ability to do that is aided or harmed by our culture through rewards and punishments, approval and disapproval, being included or excluded. How that is handled is very important and can make or break a society.

We humans also have a need to be a part of and contribute to the culture that sustains us, and we also want to be proud of it. We need to be able to look at ourselves in the mirror at night and know that we did our best, made our contribution and had something to do with the  good in our world.

What happens when that contribution is marginalized? limited? controlled? and diminished?

What happens when we are treated as commodities? treated as burdens? made demands of without having our own needs met?

What happens when our ability to solve our on problems is taken away? our skills are undeveloped? our talents unwanted?

What happens when we are nothing more than cogs in a wheel rather that the important creative force in our lives? How many can say that their real self is truly valued?

Cultural Depression And How We Define Ourselves

Because we grow up in a particular cultural context, we learn to define ourselves in terms of the culture we live in. Question the culture and you discover quickly how much culture and identity are intertwined. Want to abandon a culture? You will soon discover how much you depend on it.

Of course we can practice detachment and that is healthy. However, it is equally valid to assert that a culture needs to serve its members and needs to have a healthy purpose and healthy practices. Which means that it needs to support the health and self-actualization of its citizens.

How Cultural Depression Feels

I am mostly interested in how it affects us on the inside, which impacts our ability to function and live well. Our highly mechanized economic system has an affect on how we feel. Many people have some of all of these feelings:

  • we are incidental. Most of our living comes from  a “system”.  What is not systematized? We have systematized food production, all sorts of goods production and distribution, and the education and economic system.  It is operated by humans working machines. We are largely incidental and feel it.
  • we are displays. We are able to display the results of all of this systematization: through the clothes we wear, cars we drive and houses we live in. We are all mannequins in this store called Earth.
  • we are dependent. We cannot usually leave this system because when we go to school, we learn the skills necessary to survive in it, not without it. So we have become dependent on it which can make us feel insecure. Are we living our lives or just passing through on a conveyor belt from birth to death?

A highly mechanized and systematized winner-take-all economic system like our current version of capitalism leave a lot of people feeling depressed and unhappy. And that is a reasonable response to a difficult situation. Often it feels uncomfortable because

  • it seems relentless –  the activity and production. It’s a system that seems afraid to stop.
  • of the hustling: hustle to work, to feel good, to smile no matter what. The forced and expected validation of a system that we have to support to survive.
  • then comes the fear:
    • the fear of not being included or dropping out.
    • the fear of the judgment of others should you not measure up
    • the fear as one famous critic said, “of being irrelevant.” Being irrelevant is often seen as a failure and the end of your livelihood.
  • then the exhaustion, because no matter how hard you try, it is very difficult to get to a place where you can rest. In essence the odds are stacked against you. It’s not just a rat race, it is a rat trap.

Our culture has supported our growth in some important ways, however, the growth that is supported is very limited and confined to the  direct needs of that economic system. So if you decide to define yourself beyond the economic system, you may find yourself out on a limb.

What started innocently as a way to improve the material well-being of the human race has now become an albatross around our necks – a shallow and relentlessly materialistic model that has turned human beings into commodities like everything else.

Unfortunately this system needs for us to be dependent on it so that it can survive – a dependency that causes us to feel vulnerable when something goes wrong. Then we have to take notice of how many of our basic needs are met by products transported to us from elsewhere. We are living with a societal structure that has so many points of failure that we are all excessively vulnerable. That does not feel good.

What Can We Do About Cultural Depression?

Our current system is mature and entrenched. It is unlikely to respond to individual needs and concerns in a meaningful way. That is asking more than it can do. But we do not have to leave it at that. We can start to get rid of cultural depression by taking our lives back by:

  • taking our bodies back from processed and fast food, soft drinks and snack foods.
  • take our minds back from packaged entertainment that offers a negative view of people and the world.
  • take our livelihoods back by  investing in skills that help us and others to become healthy.
  • investing in local sources of food and other necessities so that we are less vulnerable to supply disruptions in other places.
  • investing in our local community so that it becomes the life supporting and sustaining place it can be.

We do not have to be victims of cultural depression.  Everyone has natural creativity which can be used to make life more enjoyable. sustainable and satisfying.

It means living on a human scale and just requires a leap of faith.

About Maria Hill

Maria Hill is the founder of Sensitive Evolution. She is the author of The Emerging Sensitive: A Guide For Finding Your Place In The World. In addition, she has created the immersive Emerging Sensitive Program of "sensory processing yoga" using frameworks to help sensitive people master their sensitivity and turn it into the asset it can be. She also offers the Emerging Sensitive Movie Club focused on movies and discussions about living in the world as a sensitive person and navigating the challenging cultural shifts of our times. She is a longtime meditator, reiki master, student of alternative health and Ayurveda. Maria is also an abstract painter whose portfolio can be found at Infinite Shape and also very interested in animal and human rights and the environment.

19 Comments

  1. Nicolette Marié on March 17, 2014 at 5:56 pm

    I value your insights, Maria, and the advice you give.

    I think sensitive and gifted people are so vulnerable to this type of depression, because they know EXACTLY what is missing and how the gap can be filled to create more joy and peace and understanding. Knowing and not being able to do something about it causes the suffering.

    Also, it is hard for any gifted / sensitive person to have so much to give and not be allowed to do that or not having their efforts reciprocated.



    • Maria on March 17, 2014 at 6:12 pm

      Hi Nicolette,

      Thank you for your beautiful insights and wise words about the experience of highly sensitive people. It is very hard to be aware, want to give and not able to reach the people around you. We can feel powerless and that is hard to live with. I could not have put it better.

      All the best,
      Maria



  2. Claire on November 7, 2014 at 8:01 am

    thanks for the article really struck a chord with me. I find it hard to remain positive when I look at the world around me and see so many problems. It’s hard to meet the demands required and me and I see so many others suffer at the hands of the system it’s heartbreaking really. I feel compelled that we need to change but it’s a daunting challenge and where would you even start?



    • Maria Hill on November 7, 2014 at 8:53 am

      Hi Claire,

      I think we HSPs get overwhelmed by the enormity of the need for change in our world because we have such big hearts. However, the task of major change come from each person. Think of a beehive – it needs all of the bees for make it work. So does cultural transition. I think that if you identify your unique gifts and offer those while reaching out to like minded people you will be doing your part while developing social connections that are nourishing for you. I hope this helps. Let me know how you are doing.

      Maria



  3. Claire G on November 7, 2014 at 11:11 am

    This post came up on my FB account, and I commented on it over a year ago. It is such a good post that I want to comment again. I’ve always felt out of place, and like this is the wrong time for me to be here on the Earth. It is so good to know I am not alone, that there are others feelings this sense of alienation. At times I feel my spirit being crushed by this cold, robotic system that we live in. However it does feel that there is an awakening going on, these truly are interesting times.



    • Maria Hill on November 8, 2014 at 2:38 pm

      Hi Claire,

      Thanks for stopping by. I agree with you that there is an awakening going on. People are finding that we are more connected than competing and so I think a more interdependent way of living and being is emerging. It is a great time to be an HSP. I hope you are finding your place in all of it.

      All the best,
      Maria



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